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If you’re considering a direct cremation – or someone you love has chosen one – the question of attendance is one of the first things most people ask. It’s a natural concern, especially if you feel that being present is an important part of saying goodbye. The short answer is

Deciding what to do with a loved one’s ashes is a deeply personal choice. There is no right or wrong answer, and there is no rush. Whether you want to keep the ashes close, scatter them in a meaningful place, or create a lasting tribute, the decision is entirely yours.

An unattended cremation is a cremation that takes place without a funeral service and without mourners present. There is no hearse, no ceremony, and no mourners at the crematorium. It is also referred to as a ‘direct cremation’. You might have come across the phrase “unattended cremation” and wondered what